Ok made a really stupid mistake yesterday. Turns out that the "cold and distant" tone I got from the friend in the morning was in fact a "I just woke up from sleep" tone. Found that out when I called her at the end of the day and asked her if I had pissed her off or something. Yeah I can be a real paranoid android sometimes.
Oh I didn't manage to wake up in time so had to take a cab down. Grr 8 bucks down the drain.